Monday, January 12, 2009

Not Sexy

It is interesting that as time goes by I am coming to the conclusion that I'm not sexy. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that in a bad way. But if you look at the way people react to you, interact with you. You slowly come to see how others see you. I am a nice guy. I am a regular, nice, smart guy. But I am not sexy. I am fun, and thoughtful. But I am not sexy.

At times that's a hard realization. But I think its for the best. I suspect it is a better place to be these days. Simplier, for sure.

7 comments:

  1. Most people are sexy to someone, it just depends on chemistry.

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  2. i think some people have sex appeal that just ozes out of them...like me;)

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  3. I find you remarkably sexy. I just don't know what to do with it all.

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  4. Regular, smart, nice, fun and thoughtful men are/can be incredibly sexy. You are what you want to be. You want to be sexy? Believe you are.. it works.

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  5. sexy is in the eye of the beholder. You would be surprised what I thought was sexy that others may not. It really depends on the person. Really.

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  6. I think it helps if you feel sexy, then there is at least a chance that someone else will pick up on what you are feeling through pheromones; the hormone that is released through your sweat glands. I'm not sure though. I find that people can be sexy by the way they speak, or form words on a page, or think. All of that can be a lot sexier than someone who is physically attractive. Perhaps when you wrote this you felt a bit tired and so not was not able to see what is appealing about you.

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