It has dawned on me where we are going. What she wants, a romantic relationship, with me, on her terms.
My position, pick any two.
Its really that simple.
And fairness, I have the same choice. I have chosen on my terms now. And I have chosen to have a relationship, maybe romantic, maybe not romantic, but open. If its with her, or someone else is yet to be determined.
I see the conflict in her. Control is a drug. There is an addiction. And the withdrawls are terrible.